Well, I must be really unlucky. I did over 15 years with the Corps and spent time in Ulster. Saw and heard a lot there which did my head in. Made the mistake of marrying a German, and subsequently lost the kids to them.
The RBL have basically turned their back on me, since I've had had a lot of emotional and psychiatric problems. Although they have helped me once, they refuse me help now, and accuse me of drinking, or worse. That's how good they are. They'd sooner help "ex-wives of" who've been divorced two years, rather then folks who have served.
I've lost the best part of fifteen years out of my life, through adjustment and psychological problems. I'v e been homeless again recently, and have been thru' the Hostelss and on the way to another stab at normality.
But I don't begrudge anyone who's had success , and enjoys maybe two pensions . But we don't all do as well as that, and some of us actually struggle to get through our life.
Regards
Paul